Comments on: Wife wants a motorcycle?

By: shirleyjean89

shirleyjean89 — Fri, 07 May 2010 20:43:44 +0000

it sounds like you two really need to talk things out…you might be missing something she is trying to say and she might be missing something you are trying to say…and if it truly is how you say it is…remember there’s two sides to every story…then i don’t see why the fuss with the motorcycle…you’d have to take out loans for the house renovations anyway or borrow against your house whichever…let her buy an inexpensive motorcycle for a starting out bike and then later (like several years down the road) when she’s more experienced as a rider she can upgrade…i don’t think it’s gonna hurt for her to get it…and yes kids come first…but sometimes you have to stop the merry go round and get something for yourselve sor you’ll burn out and then she really will leave…good luck.

By: Epona S

Epona S — Fri, 07 May 2010 20:23:59 +0000

Kids come first. Not only could the money go in for their education or something, but also its not the safest thing in the world. What if something happened and she were (would never wish this on anyone) die or be really badly or permanently disabled?? I know you cant live life being afraid, but when you have small children you don’t need to take an unnecessary risk. I say once they are older or even out of the house, fine. But for now I would see if she cant find something safer and less expensive to be her hobby.

Maybe even getting a 4 wheeler, something that the whole family (once they are old enough) can enjoy. Its slower speeds, not dealing with traffic, and its something you all can share? And its a blast! Just wear helmets ^_^

By: yhobuddy G

yhobuddy G — Fri, 07 May 2010 19:37:35 +0000

Sit down and have an open discussion about it. See if you can meet in the middle and get a bike you both can ride. a great means of getting away and clearing your head..

I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED

By: Mean Carleen

Mean Carleen — Fri, 07 May 2010 19:13:23 +0000

I say let her get the bike. Sure there are house repairs that you are doing but if there is nothing too pressing to renovate, I say get the bike. You live in the house and will for a long time hopefully so put one of the renovating jobs on the back burner to make way for the bike.

By: Ivonne

Ivonne — Fri, 07 May 2010 18:44:31 +0000

sounds like u have 4 kids instead of 3 she is acted childish and inconsiderate. if she would really leave u because of a bloody motorcycle then that means she never really loved u to begin with. love is patient love is kind and love understands

By: Space Cadet #5

Space Cadet #5 — Fri, 07 May 2010 17:54:47 +0000

Dude, LET HER GET IT. Ever seen the movie “Sideways” ???

By: Magic 8 Ball Yeah, still a BILF

Magic 8 Ball Yeah, still a BILF — Fri, 07 May 2010 17:11:27 +0000

That b itch will probably get a pink one just so you can’t ride it.